Working With Men
If you are on this page it probably means you are struggling with a relationship, yourself, the past, or something has happened or needs to happen. I work with a lot of men individually and I would love to assist.
Life
On the one hand I believe it can be a good thing that men at times don’t “need” to talk about all their issues or all their feelings. This does have it’s utility. Sometimes though, men “need” to talk about what is going on, their thoughts and feelings, and work through things in conversation to better move forward with wisdom and discernment, myself included. We can end up very isolated if we do not. Maybe you are doing well overall, but want a place to talk about some current struggles. You may also recognize some longstanding areas of your life that need to be addressed, or you are depressed/anxious, burdened by the weight and pressures of life, or even the meaning of life. Through repeated conversations where I try and listen very well as you attempt to speak the truth to the best of your ability (me and you getting to know your inner life so that you can more fully live life), what matters and is needed is revealed.
Marriage
Confused, hurt, or burdened by what is going on in your marriage? Maybe your wife is leaving you (70% of divorces are being initiated by women) and you don’t know why or you have been told it’s all your fault? Do you feel disrespected or been told you are not respectable? On the other hand, maybe you know what’s going on, maybe you did something or have done things that are not respectable (even though you know the “spirit of the man” is respectable), or you realize something needs to change and you want to take responsibility. Whether you are trying to figure this out or know exactly what is going on and what you need to do but want support, you can do something about it. I will listen, encourage, and help you move forward.
Career
Feeling stuck, burned out, or questioning the direction of your professional life as a man? We are often defined by our ability to provide and achieve. Maybe the daily grind is wearing you down, with mounting pressures from job insecurity, long hours, or being unfulfilled despite outward success. On the other hand, perhaps you've hit roadblocks due to your own choices, like avoiding risks that could lead to growth, or realizing that climbing the ladder isn't aligning with your deeper purpose anymore. You might be contemplating a career shift, dealing with workplace conflicts, or grappling with how your job impacts your family and personal well-being. Together, we can explore, challenge assumptions, and guide you toward actionable steps.
Parenting
Maybe you're feeling overwhelmed by the daily chaos of raising kids, unsure how to set boundaries without being too harsh, or disconnected from your children amid work pressures and modern family dynamics. On one hand, many men excel at teaching resilience and practical skills, but sometimes we overlook the need to open up about our own uncertainties—like co-parenting after a separation, dealing with rebellious teens, or questioning if we're modeling the right values. Perhaps you've made mistakes in the past that weigh on you, or you're recognizing patterns from your own upbringing that you want to break. Whether you're piecing together what's going wrong or already know areas where you can step up and take ownership, I'll listen, offer practical insights, and help you build the confidence to be the father you aspire to be.
